Confused on minecraft multiplayer?

I got minecraft and its my first time playing online, I joined a server but so far I'm so confused
I just want to survive from the monsters and start building a small house but I'm getting attacked, apparently tere's money and tax now and I bought a pickaxe There are games that I don't understand called PvP, hunger games and more, I tried to collect wood but it didn't let me,

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