Sunday, August 2, 2015

I am upset with husband over video games?


My husband loves to play computer and video games. I do not. I did however learn to play minecraft so we could have something to do together. We got married in November and this past valentine's day my husbands brother came to visit. It was fine with me except that they played video games CONSTANTLY the whole three says. My husband knew that I didn't want him to but did it anyway. He knew I was upset the first night and we talked about it and he said he wouldn't anymore. This happened 3 times- he promised he wouldn't do it and he was sorry I was upset- but he didn't. And I didn't have anything to do since it's valentine's day and everyone is with their significant other and I didn't want to have to explain why I wasn't with mine. Anyhow I am still upset about it 6 months later. And it's happening again. My husband, his brother and his fiance are visiting and all playing video games. I am a little sad about it and it might be a little bit of an insecurity situation and I don't know if I am being unreasonable but I don't know what to do about it. I don't like my feelings being completely disregarded. Just to be clear if he wants to play games he can and I don't care about 3 or 4 or 5 hours but days? I want to leave for the night but all hotels in the area are booked. Suggestions on what I should do?

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